When someone tells you “if and when”, no matter how it is said, they have no intentions of following through. Math never lies.
-50 (if) + 50 (when) = 0 (Never.Gonna.Get.It)
“Guard your heart, above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” ~ Proverbs 4:23
“If the heart wanders or is distracted, bring it back to the point quite gently and replace it tenderly in its Master’s presence. And even if you did nothing during the whole of your hour but bring your heart back and place it again in Our Lord’s presence, though it went away every time you brought it back, your hour would be very well employed.” ~ St. Francis